Garage Sales!

Since it has been 9 years since I had a baby around, we are severely lacking in the baby supply department- as in- we are starting from scratch.  At the same time, we are trying to pay down debt, go on vacation and do some projects around the house.  So, last weekend, I started garage sale shopping for baby items.  Last weekend, I found a baby swing and 5 blankets just by dragging David around Midland.  The weather was bad and there weren’t many sales to be found.

Last night, David picked up a Midland paper for me and he and I sat down with Google Maps and mapped out the route of every garage sale that listed baby items in their ad.  Maddie and I waited for the rain to stop and we headed out.  She had $50 of her own money and I took $100 with me.

She bought lots of random things- a handmade cheetah print hair clip, a cheetah print pillow, a floaty raft to take to Branson for the pool, cake pans and her best deal of the day-she found a white and brass daybed for $7.  She is cleaning her room right now to make room to move her old bed out and the new bed in.

I spent $77 and here is my list:

11 newborn onsies

5 newborn t-shirts (all snappy instead of pull-over the head in case I manage to break another baby’s clavicle during childbirth)

1 hat

3 bibs

1 snowsuit

6 ‘bag’ style jammies

8 sleepers

1 pair of duckie slippers

2 pairs of socks

1 brand new boppy pillow

1 play-yard/bassinet/changing table combo

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What to Expect the Toddler Years

2 crib sheets

All of the clothing is newborn sizes and winter clothes, and almost everything is Carters, in yellow and green and in perfect condition.

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It was a very productive day- and I am exhausted.  Maddie, on the other hand, could have gone for another 4 hours!

Week 15 – Oranges!

As predicted, we’ve moved up in the world – from lemons last week to oranges this week.  The fetus is about the size of an orange, so the baby websites say.  Of perhaps more importance, this is the week that the fetus will start reacting to sounds that it hears around it.  That means that when we go to our Decemberists Concert on the 1st of next month, the baby will get to hear it’s first concert as well.

It can also now make a fist.  It’s a good thing that it couldn’t hear when we went to the heavy metal concert, because it would probably be sad it couldn’t throw one of these

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It’s said that some women can start to feel movements this week, but it’s uncommon.

On a sad note, peanut butter cravings have ceased.  I’ve waited for a while to post this, because I found it incredibly sad.  The resultant mania that accompanied the peanut butter cravings is now over.  Hopefully we’ll get some other strange and bizarre craving soon.  I wonder how long it’s going to take to use up all the accumulated peanut butter in the house?

Week 14 – Lemons

We’re starting week 14 today.  Notable developments include the fact that the baby is able to frown.  Last week it was able to smile.  Next week I’m expecting it to make a sucky fish face

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In other news, it’s getting bigger and bigger.  The plum days are over, now all the webpages are describing the development in terms of citrus fruits (lemons right now).

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What a bag of fetuses might look like

Things are starting to get hairy.  ‘Lanugo’ is what the hair that’s starting to appear all over the fetus is called.

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It sucks its thumb a lot now, as well as other movements.

We’ve cleared out our geek den.  We used to have both of our desks in our bedroom, so that we can use the living room for… living purposes.  But we’re going to need extra room coming up here very soon, so I moved one of our loveseats out of the house.  Both desks came into the living room.  There’s now a vast expanse of space (for very small amounts of ‘vast’) in our room that will be good for an infant.  We have some time to go, but figured that while I’m off of school I may as well do the heavy lifting.

I’m reminded that I’m getting older during times like these.  The next day I was crazy-sore.  That night I slept like a baby.

Ending the first trimester

It’s scary.

It seems like just the other day that we found out Jolene was pregnant.  Now we’re starting week 13, and things like the teeth and everything are already in place.  The ears I guess are still moving around, it’s practicing swallowing, and so on.  The weirdest part is that one of the sites I’ve read says that it’s practicing smiling as well.

Can you imagine a smiling fetus?

I can’t.

I’ve started cleaning out stuff to make room for the eventual crib.  We’re going to be moving a bunch of stuff out, and moving some computer stuff to the living room from the bedroom where it currently is.  Not the best situation, since we don’t have that much room.  However, it’s probably the only setup that will work in the small house we’re now trapped in.

There’s a lot of work to be done.  I’ve started a savings account.  I’m working as hard as I can to get things ready.  I feel like we may never be fully ready, but I think that’s probably part of the way things go.  I am sure everything will end up more than ok.

Our digital memory box

We have what we call a ‘memory box’ in our room, where we put all of the important documents, pictures, homework assignments from the kids, and other things that we’d like to cherish forever.  With the advent of digital cameras and the digitization of much of the rest of our lives, there is another memory box that we have right in front of us – the computer!  In this post I will explain how I secured all of our memories and important information digitally, to be certain that even if the computers in the house die, the memories and information will live on.

What got me thinking about this was an attempt to reduce clutter by digitizing the few statements that we get by mail.  We have no room for big piles of financial data in our little house – we do have room for it on the computers.  But how do we preserve this information, and keep it available?

File Sharing

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I started using a file synchronization service to keep my classwork and other school information synchronized between my laptop and my desktop.  It was really useful, as I would save something on my desktop computer and have it automatically and instantly transmitted to my laptop.  The service I use is called Dropbox, and incidentally if you follow that link and sign up you get a free 2 gigabytes of storage plus some bonus space.

All this program does is run in the background and synchronize files – you don’t have to ‘do’ anything but put the files you want available in all the computers in your Dropbox folder on your computer. I scanned all of the financial statements and put them in the Dropbox, making them available to all of the computers.

Security

While Dropbox makes a great file synchronization tool, the data is only encrypted while it’s being sent to and from the Dropbox servers.  While it sits on their servers, and while it sits on your computer, the files are just open.  This poses an issue, if

  • The Dropbox servers get hacked (unlikely but anything is possible)
  • One of our computers gets stolen (probably more likely)

To fix this, I installed a program called TrueCrypt on each of the computers.

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What this software does is allows you to do is create a virtual hard drive, that ‘points to’ an encrypted file that can be stored anywhere.  This allows us to put anything that has sensitive information on it, such as account numbers on statements, into this secure drive.  The encrypted file is placed within our Dropbox folders, which has the result of sharing the encrypted drive across all of the computers.  You cannot access this information unless you have the appropriate password/key to put in, and the data is stored with the same encryption types that the US Government uses to store their ‘Top Secret’ level data.

One of the neat things about Dropbox is that if you change a file and re-save it, the program is smart enough to only upload the changed portions.  This is important, as our ‘virtual secure drive’ is a gigabyte in size.

Passwords/Logins

Because of the way that the world works now, much of our data is stored on company owned websites.  Our mortgage, for example, is paid through our lenders website.  Our various bank accounts have multiple levels of authentication per account.  We have various email accounts that we keep track of, facebook accounts, and on and on.  How does one keep track of all of these passwords, usernames, authentication phrases, and websites?

My solution is a two-part one, requiring a USB flash drive

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and a program called KeePass

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KeePass is stored 0n my USB flash drive, which is on the ring with the rest of my keys, and is able to be run on any computer that runs Windows.  It stores the passwords and other sensitive data much in the same way as TrueCrypt, but instead of holding all of the information as files, it specializes in passwords, usernames, websites, and notes about websites.  I keep a copy of this in the Dropbox as well, just in case I lose my keys.  Using this program, along with the appropriate password/key, all of the important websites that lay beyond our control are accessible.  Should I lose my keys, the password info contained will still be secure, since it’s encrypted.

Backups

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thecookes.org has 8+ gigabytes of data at the time of this posting, and it’s increasing at a steady rate.  I expect that it will likely explode once we get closer to the arrival of the baby.  All of this information, such as stored emails, pictures, videos, blog posts, and so on are backed up nightly as part of the webhosting service that I run.  However, this is not sufficient for me – I prefer 3 levels of backup.  Should I pass away, it’s important that these pictures, videos and more do not go away with me.  Because of this, I synchronize the files and information on the server with a local computer regularly.  To retrieve the information, all someone would need to do is to start up my desktop and go to the ‘backup’ folder.  None of this needs to be particularly secure – in fact, most of it is available for public viewing on the web.

Our local computers have a number of files, such as media files, not shared in the dropbox that we also backup.  To ensure that we don’t lose anything, we backup our files offsite.  This is important, because if our house burns down or a natural disaster strikes and causes our computers in the house to be damaged or lost, we will still be able to retrieve these files from the internet.  We subscribe to a service named Mozy to ensure that our data is secure.  Should the worst case scenario occur, we could have them ship dvd’s of our data or download our data from the internet. Part of the backed up data is our dropbox folder as well.  Like Dropbox, Mozy has a small free account that you can try out.

The Most Important Part

All of this is great, and I’m sure that most issues that we would have that could cause a loss of data are covered.  But all of this is for naught if, for example, I die and there’s nobody around who knows how to get the information back.

The most important part, then, is a very low tech thing indeed.  A piece of paper, with simple step-by-step instructions on how to access all of this data, starting with the USB drive and KeePass, then the encrypted drive, and so on.  While none of the above is particularly difficult to do, doing it for the first time could potentially be intimidating.  Storing this where one would store a will or living trust would be the best idea.  I haven’t completed this step yet, but I intend to do so very soon.

All of the above can be had for a very low price.  We pay $9.99 monthly for 50 gigabytes of Dropbox usage, and $4.95 monthly for unlimited space on Mozy.  The webhosting is free, since it’s what I use for work as well.  Add a cheap USB flash drive, some free software, and it’s pretty inexpensive peace of mind.

Allegro!

Jolene had her first prenatal examination today.

The Doctor

Our appointment was at 3:30 in Bay City, and we went for lunch to grandpa tony’s first.  It was a good lunch, and I finally ordered the size of spaghetti that I can actually eat rather than the ultra large size that I never finish.  Afterward, we headed to Jolene’s mom’s house and killed some time.  We wandered around downtown Bay City, since we were extremely early for our appointment.  Antique stores were where we tread, though I don’t really understand why people would want most of the stuff.  Truth be told, I was worried.  What if we didn’t hear anything at the exam?

We went to the appointment, and I stayed in the room in the extra chair while the doctor did the normal lady examination.  I am told that I have to go through all of these things with her, so there I stayed. Following this she took a machine off of the counter and put some lubrication on it.  I had previously seen the machine but didn’t figure that was what she was going to use.  I guess I was thinking it would be something more substantial.

She used the machine and we listened in…  eventually, ever so faintly, was a really fast beat in the background.  The doctor told us that it was about 160 beats per minute, about normal for this time.  She’s scheduled for a blood check for genetic issues and such.  Otherwise, everything else was just about normal.

We left, and scheduled an appointment for a ultrasound.  That will be happening June 9th, at 5pm at the Bay City hospital.  That should be an interesting trip indeed.

Our Anniversary

We celebrated our 3rd anniversary of our wedding today, and our 5th anniversary of knowing each other.  It was a nice day.  Allegro means ‘fast and bright’ in Italian.  It’s the same beat per minute range that we heard on the little machine just a few hours ago.  Jolene gave me allegro today for our anniversary.  It’s probably the best gift I’ve been given for an anniversary.

It’s been a good 5 years.

Week 12: Micturition

Well, it’s been a busy weekend….

Graduation

Friday night I went through my graduation ceremony at Delta.  I dressed up, of course.  It’s about making mom proud, after all.  I got there at about 5:55, and stood in line for an hour while the graduating class of 2009 got assembled around me.  This seemed the longest, since I did not know anyone around me.  An older lady, presumably in charge, kept reminding us to go to the bathroom.  I have a nervous bladder anyway, so this didn’t help. It was like she was our substitute mommy.

Eventually we got in 2 lines, one on each side of the hallway.  It was hot there, with little air circulation.  I wasn’t looking forward to the gym, figuring if the hall was this hot the gym was probably going to be worse.

5 minutes late, at 7:05, we walked into the gym.  I had enough people in front of me that I figured that I would be in row three or so.  Ultimately though, the line on the right side stopped and let the line on the left side progress.  I ended up in the front row, right on the very left edge.  The lady that I was sitting next to was overly friendly.  She treated me as though I was her best friend for years, which was kind of odd since I just met her minutes before.  The gym was surprisingly very cool, and not bad at all.

I sat through the ceremony.  Thankfully, the little old lady reminded me to go to the bathroom earlier, so I was a-ok.  The entire thing only lasted an hour or so, and all culminated in this moment:

Video – Walking Across

After that, I sat and watched a large amount of people I did not know graduate mere feet from where I was sitting.  I contemplated what would happen if someone really did have to go to the bathroom during the ceremony.  I pictured random graduates as they walked across, regretting that bottle of water they drank just minutes before the ceremony. Overall though, it was nice, with refreshments afterward down in the commons area.  I ate many many brownies.  I drank a ridiculous amount of punch, having only drank a bare minimum of liquids that day.  Again, I didn’t want to have to go to the bathroom.  I couldn’t be that guy.

Saturday

We got home late Friday night and got up early Saturday, as per normal with the beasties.  For some  strange reason, they get up earlier on weekends than they do on weekdays, when they’re hard to wake up and get going.  I don’t understand it.  It’s probably one of those things, like how women go to the bathroom in flocks.  Just strange behavior.

Anyway, we went to a pancake breakfast for Ben.  I looked quite well rested..

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… well, maybe not.

Ben was nominated as an “incredible kid”, and got free pancakes and all sorts of accolades.

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More pictures and video here.

Then I took Maddie to soccer; her team won.

Finally, I went to a heavy metal concert with my wife.  It was a good concert, and I figured out where the bathrooms were  in cobo hall pretty easily.  I used them fairly continuously, as normal.  It was after the concert that I found perhaps the most convenient bathroom.  We walked into the parking garage and made our way towards my car, which I had parked near a corner.  As we drew closer, we saw a very large man standing next to my drivers side door, urinating on the wall next to the car.   As I approached I figured I had to say something, so I said “Hey, thanks for not peeing on the car man!”.  He was very drunk.  As we drove away, we saw the enormity of the puddle.  I wonder, how many beers did this guy drink?

We drove home and arrived around 2am.  We were in bed by 3am.

Sunday

We woke up at noon and eventually made our way to Ghengis Kahn, a mongolian bbq place here.  My parents took everyone out to celebrate my graduation that Friday.  Afterwards, we went to their house for some cake…

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… which was very tasty indeed.  Thanks mom, it was a nice day.  I got nice gifts, and I’m thankful for all of this.

Regarding The Baby…

I looked up the information for the development through this week, and it’s getting incredibly human looking

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Also of note, vocal cords are in place, fingernails and toenails, the brain is fully formed, and facial features are in place. Most importantly for this entry, it has developed kidneys and have started to secrete urine.  The cycle is complete.  From me at graduation, to a large drunk man at the concert, to the fetus, this entire blog post is urine related.  I’m not sure how I’ll top this.

Tomorrow is both our anniversary as well as the first doctors appointment wherein I’ll hear the heartbeat and see the kid.  It should be interesting!

Oh, and if you’re still confused as to what Micturition is…