Financial aid meeting…

So I received an email from the Director of Financial aid at Delta College.  He said he would like to have a meeting with me.  I assume during this meeting he will justify the attempt to bill me for the classes that I’m currently taking.  I tried to call him to schedule this meeting but only got voicemail.  He ended up calling me back and we discussed over the phone the basics of the issue:

They emailed me because they sent me my degree already, midway through the semester.

This leaves me with no degree that I’m currently working towards, which the federal auditors would not like to see.

He talked with Jolene in the registrars office who told him that I “Wanted my degree pushed through as fast as possible”.  This is not the case, I asked her to push through my course waiver request, which would allow me to graduate.  At no time did I ever ask for a degree to be sent to me via mail, hence my surprise when it arrived.  We even discussed graduation, as in the ceremony.

I’m going to talk to him at 3:00 tomorrow in his office with the academic advisor that I had been working with.  He mentioned that I had not been in to see him previously, and inferred that we probably could have had it taken care of if I had.

Except, of course, for the fact that the one time I tried to go back to the financial aid office I stood at the desk for 20 minutes without an acknowledgment from the working staff.  This was during the middle of the day, and yes, they saw me standing there.  With that kind of service, why would I object myself to more?

I’ll be sure to update this with more information.

Boy or Girl

According to the information I got from the OB, this is the week in which the gender of the child is determined.   So what do we ‘want’, a boy or a girl?

I know, the popular thing is to say that either is what you want so long as it’s healthy.  But let’s look at this for a moment.

Boy:

  • Much cooler toys.  I want to play with trucks.
  • The ‘mama’s boy’ cliche.
  • Will have to deal with a teenage boy when he grows up.
  • Everything won’t be pink.  Not that I don’t like the color, it just doesn’t go with a lot of my current wardrobe.  We must be fashionable!

Girl:

  • No circumcision issues.  Did you know one of the options for pain management for circumsicion is a drop of ‘sugar water’ on the tongue?  Are you serious, they chop that and give the kid some soda or something?  Yeowch.
  • The ‘daddy’s girl’ cliche
  • Will have to deal with teenage boys coming to visit her when she grows up.
  • Being able to say “What’s up, babygirl” in a non-ironic sense.

The next question, of course, is do we want to know?

Of course!

Yellow is a terrible color, and why not find out if we have the capability to do so!

I guess, when it comes down to ‘boy or girl’, I don’t care either way.  We’ll just have the possibility of having a girl with some super-awesome toys (for me to play with).

This boggles my mind…

So we were reading through the binder given to us by the OB last night.  Most of the information was very helpful and informative, but then I got to this page, which described ways you and your spouse can ‘get intimate’ near the time of birth:

breastmilk

WHAT!?!?

People do that?

What did I just stumble upon?  Breast milk for sexual lubrication – now I’ve heard everything.