And so it begins…

Saturday night, after an evening out with friends, David needed some pancakes to soak up his beer.  We stopped at the Texan for ‘breakfast’ and it was yummy… and short lived.  We didn’t even make it half-way home when I was spending some quality time in the rain by the side of the road.  Lovely visual, eh?

Last night, after eating a late dinner, I ended up sick again.  Poor Ben has the sad luck of having the bedroom right across the hall from the bathroom.  I could hear him calling for me while David was pacing the hallway trying to make sure I was okay… ummm… no, no I wasn’t.  LOL

After scrubbing my teeth, I went into Ben’s room to explain morning sickness to him, only to have him reply, “but it’s not morning” which launched into another discussion about how silly of a name it is.  He went to sleep satisfied that I was perfectly fine.  And I was.  Once the food is forcibly evacuated, I feel perfectly normal… which is a good thing, I guess

And so begins the period of arbitrary food evacuation.

(peanut butter cookies seem to be staying down just fine, though!  LOL  Made Grandma Malley’s recipe tonight, but I altered it by adding splenda in place of half the sugar… not grandma’s cookies… but close.)

Prenatal Vitamins

Jolene had issues in her previous pregnancies with getting sick from taking Prenatal vitamins.  So I told Jolene back when we got our free samples from the doctor that I’d take one too when she took her first one.  We’ll share misery, if they’re that bad.

She took her first one today from the baby doctor, after taking some other vitamins up till this point.  These are called “Prenate DHA”

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It was very difficult to take a picture of these vitamins.  Foil tends to reflect flash.

It was shipped in this ridiculous container.  It looks like it might be easy to open.  It even has instructions on the back.

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On the back you can see them.  “Peel and Push” if you can’t make it out.  Unfortunately, the stark reality is that these pills are sealed tighter than nuclear waste being transported cross country on a train.

After struggling with opening the vitamins, Jolene said “It looks like another pill you’re going to have to open for me” and handed it to me.  We do the same thing with her Iron supplements.

I tried to peel.  I tried to push.  I bent.  I used my fingernails.

No progress.

I reached in the drawer next to me and found the first sharp object I could – a meat serving fork.  I started to attack it, while Jolene actually took the time to get an appropriate tool to open them.  Scissors.

Is this some practical joke the pharmaceutical industry is playing on expectant mothers?

Pharma Lab tech 1: “Hey, check this out, I’m going to engineer a container that’s nearly unwrappable for our new vitamins!”

Pharma Lab tech 2: “I’ll print ‘peel and push‘ on the back.  Let’s get them practicing pushing early!”

Pharma Lab tech 1 + 2:  “Muahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha”

So anyway, we got 2 of them open by cutting them open with scissors.  The pills themselves are huge and blue-greenish.  They have a delightful vanilla aftertaste.  It might make a good after dinner mint.

I looked at the website to see what I could expect from taking it:

  • Replenishes DHA depleted during pregnancy and lactation
  • Provides critical nutrients essential to pregnancy
  • Helps maintain a healthy cardiovascular system
  • Supports maintenance of healthy skin, hair, and nails

I’m looking forward to these benefits.

The Meeting

The Beginning

So we arrived at Delta College for our meeting with the Director of Financial Aid, David Urbaniak, 10 minutes early.  He came out and introduced himself to us and then we waited for the Academic Adviser, Jessica Miller.  I like Jessica, she’s one of the few helpful staff that I’ve found at Delta.  Should you find yourself in need of advising, be sure to ask for her first at Delta.

The meeting began with a brief overview of the current status – that I was going to be essentially billed for the classes I’m currently taking because of the fact that I’m not in a program currently.  The reason I’m not in a program currently is because an Associates in Science degree was sent to me already, despite me not indicating that this is what I wanted to do.

When confronted with the idea that I never requested this from Jolene, who works in the registrar’s office, he simply stated that he ‘couldn’t speak for another person or department’ and that she stated that I requested my degree to be sent to me as soon as possible.

This is not the case; I provided my substitution request sheet to Jolene in the registrars office and requested she put the substitution through.  We even talked about graduation, and before I left I asked her to confirm that this should be all I need for graduation.  She did affirm this. My witness, also named Jolene, was sitting in the waiting chair across the way from Jolene’s desk, overhearing our conversation.

A Lack of Responsibility

Throughout this whole process nobody has taken much in the way of responsibility or ownership for the issues I’ve faced.  I’ve spent most of a year dealing with this, and mistakes have been very certainly made.  All it would have taken  to make this ‘better’ is an acknowledgment that something wrong happened in the process.

During this meeting, like in every other meeting I’ve had with Delta’s support staff, David did not take responsibility for the issue.  He did take ownership of it, and wanted to have this meeting in order to fix my issue – which I appreciate.  He stated that he didn’t want to assign blame, which is fine – but there was a lot of it that needed to be assigned.

I suppose it really comes down to people skills issues.  Being conciliatory does not necessarily mean that you have to accept all of the blame for the past, but perhaps a glimpse of being sorry that I’ve been through this for this amount of mistakes would have been appreciated.

The Result

Essentially, if I said “I do not plan to take any more classes at Delta College” they wanted me to pay them back their aid.  If I said “I plan on taking more classes at Delta College to pursue a 3rd Associates Degree”, even if I’m lying, they’ll grant me the grace to “continue receiving aid” for the classes that I currently am enrolled in.

So, in essence, they encouraged me to lie to continue receiving aid, in lieu of fixing their mistake about sending me the Degree before I asked for it.

I am now pursuing an Associates in Management of something or another.  I don’t really know what program it is, nor do I really care.

What’s Next

A whole new set of paperwork has been initiated to get me moved into this program, effective from the beginning of the last semester.  If past experiences hold, something will go wrong and I will need to continue to visit the Delta College staff to fix their errors and oversights.

The Associates in Science degree that I received in March is valid and will continue to be.

Graduation will be fine and should not be a problem.

Graduation, however, needs to be fully coordinated with Jolene in the registrars office, the same person who pushed through a Degree when I asked her to push through a course substitution request for graduation.  Then when asked she did the ole CYA manuver (Cover Your Ass, for the uninitiated). This delights me to no end.

I just want this to be over.

Financial aid meeting…

So I received an email from the Director of Financial aid at Delta College.  He said he would like to have a meeting with me.  I assume during this meeting he will justify the attempt to bill me for the classes that I’m currently taking.  I tried to call him to schedule this meeting but only got voicemail.  He ended up calling me back and we discussed over the phone the basics of the issue:

They emailed me because they sent me my degree already, midway through the semester.

This leaves me with no degree that I’m currently working towards, which the federal auditors would not like to see.

He talked with Jolene in the registrars office who told him that I “Wanted my degree pushed through as fast as possible”.  This is not the case, I asked her to push through my course waiver request, which would allow me to graduate.  At no time did I ever ask for a degree to be sent to me via mail, hence my surprise when it arrived.  We even discussed graduation, as in the ceremony.

I’m going to talk to him at 3:00 tomorrow in his office with the academic advisor that I had been working with.  He mentioned that I had not been in to see him previously, and inferred that we probably could have had it taken care of if I had.

Except, of course, for the fact that the one time I tried to go back to the financial aid office I stood at the desk for 20 minutes without an acknowledgment from the working staff.  This was during the middle of the day, and yes, they saw me standing there.  With that kind of service, why would I object myself to more?

I’ll be sure to update this with more information.

Boy or Girl

According to the information I got from the OB, this is the week in which the gender of the child is determined.   So what do we ‘want’, a boy or a girl?

I know, the popular thing is to say that either is what you want so long as it’s healthy.  But let’s look at this for a moment.

Boy:

  • Much cooler toys.  I want to play with trucks.
  • The ‘mama’s boy’ cliche.
  • Will have to deal with a teenage boy when he grows up.
  • Everything won’t be pink.  Not that I don’t like the color, it just doesn’t go with a lot of my current wardrobe.  We must be fashionable!

Girl:

  • No circumcision issues.  Did you know one of the options for pain management for circumsicion is a drop of ‘sugar water’ on the tongue?  Are you serious, they chop that and give the kid some soda or something?  Yeowch.
  • The ‘daddy’s girl’ cliche
  • Will have to deal with teenage boys coming to visit her when she grows up.
  • Being able to say “What’s up, babygirl” in a non-ironic sense.

The next question, of course, is do we want to know?

Of course!

Yellow is a terrible color, and why not find out if we have the capability to do so!

I guess, when it comes down to ‘boy or girl’, I don’t care either way.  We’ll just have the possibility of having a girl with some super-awesome toys (for me to play with).

This boggles my mind…

So we were reading through the binder given to us by the OB last night.  Most of the information was very helpful and informative, but then I got to this page, which described ways you and your spouse can ‘get intimate’ near the time of birth:

breastmilk

WHAT!?!?

People do that?

What did I just stumble upon?  Breast milk for sexual lubrication – now I’ve heard everything.

It’s all about the peanut butter!

I love to make these cookies.  They are fast and easy. The dirty dish count is 1 bowl, 1 measuring cup, and one fork.  If you use parchment paper, you won’t even dirty a pan.  From the moment you enter the kitchen to the time you are eating yummy cookies, it’s only been a half an hour… 10 minutes to get all the stuff out and then mix it up, 10 minutes to bake and then 10 minutes to cool… and for me, peanut butter cookies to calm the peanut butter cravings this tiny rice sized bit of wonder in my belly is giving me!  Nom nom nom!

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3 Ingredient Peanut Butter Cookies

1 cup peanut butter

1 cup sugar (or 1/2 cup sugar and 1/2 cup splenda****)

1 egg

Preheat oven to 350 degrees.

Mix all 3 ingredients together in a bowl.  Roll into little balls and press down with a fork.

Bake for 8-10 minutes.  Cool for about 10 minutes and then gobble them up!

****IF YOU USE SPLENDA!!!****

Mix your sugar and splenda into the peanut butter and THEN add the egg.  For some reason, anything I have baked where splenda and egg are allowed to mingle together in a bowl, the resulting mess is very pudding-like (after it’s been baked)… not a great feature for a cookie.

Also, don’t try to go all splenda, either.  Tried it and failed.  The cookies fell apart the second I touched them, and what I did manage to get in my mouth, instantly adhered to the roof of my mouth for what seemed like hours!


November 14th, 2009

…. is the expected due date for Jolene and the baby.  We went to our first official ‘baby doctor’ appointment this morning.  I was up all night getting ill, so I went with 4 hours of sleep or so.  I think I was just overly anxious about the whole process.

I sat in the office and took notes.  Since this is a first time thing for me, I’d like to be sure I get it right.

Things of interest:

  • The bariatric vitamin pills that Jolene is taking don’t have enough Folic Acid by 200 mcg’s.  I just looked this up.  She got a bunch of samples of the prenatal variety today.  Also, they gave her a sucker at the office!  Not the kid type, unfortunately, but one that has lots of B vitamins that is supposed to help stop morning sickness.  I kind of wanted a sucker, too.
  • Cord blood.  I had no idea what this even was.  I still only have a vague sense of what it is.  I must do more research.
  • Dad Boot Camp.  A 3 hour class taught by other fathers.  I guess they bring their babies to the class for a ‘hands-on’ sort of learning situation.  The class itself kinda intimidates me more than the birth, but I’ll probably go.  It’s free, after all.
  • Along the same lines, they offer a baby CPR class.  This one interests me more, so I’ll register for this as well.
  • We got a binder with a bunch of information, and aside from that, a bunch of coupons.  The freebee-loving person I married will love this part.  I guess you fill out a few cards and get a metric ton of samples in response.
  • We have to fill out a ‘birth plan’ by 16-18 weeks.  I don’t know what a birth plan is right now.  It seems simple.  We plan to give birth.  I must investigate this more, and perhaps page through the binder.
  • An ultrasound will happen at 16-18 weeks.  Generally the insurance companies only want to pay for one of these.  God bless insurance companies!
  • We went through a genetic screening thing, where the lady read off a bunch of scary sounding diseases.  I just continually shook my head.
  • We’re going back in the first part of May.  Today, as calculated, we’re at 6 weeks, 4 days from the beginning.

Overall, it was a nice, quick appointment followed by a trip to the basement of the building where the vampires live.  They took her blood and will run a bunch of tests on it.

Afterward, we went out to breakfast.  It was a much better breakfast than we had in Bay City this past weekend.  Jolene did, however, get ill when she got back home.  God bless morning sickness!

Delta College financial aid will be the death of me…

I’ve been having issues with Delta College and it’s financial aid and support staff.  I thought I was done fighting with them, however I got yet another email from their staff today.  The connotation is that if I don’t jump through their hoops yet again I will be billed for the classes I’m taking now.  I’ve previously been content with communicating to Delta in private, but at this point I’m far, far too tired of dealing with them.  So here’s the message I got today, now posted on the web:

—–Original Message—–
From: Sika, Elvina – Staff <elvinasika@delta.edu>
Sent: Tue 3/24/2009 12:57 PM
To: Cooke, David – Student <davidcooke@delta.edu>
Subject: declaring a new college major for financial aid purposes

Hi David.  I need you to go to the attached link

http://www.delta.edu/currentstudents/ServicesforStudents/ProgramsandGraduate/HowTo/DoaProgramChange/default.aspx

and update your college major to show you are now working towards a third degree.  You received your AS degree in March 2009, and in order to keep your financial aid for this Winter 2009 semester, you must now be working towards a new degree.

If you have any questions feel free to contact me. Please update your major as soon as possible and send me a quick email response letting me know that you have done it.

Elvina Sika
Delta College
Financial Aid Office
1961 Delta Rd.
University Center, MI 48710
989.686.9553
Fax: 989.667.2202
Email: elvinasika@delta.edu <mailto:elvinasika@delta.edu>
Delta’s Homepage: www.delta.edu

I responded with the text below:

I don’t understand your verbiage.  “In order to keep your financial aid for this Winter 2009 semester”…  Does this mean that if I don’t follow this link and change to a third degree that delta will bill me for aid granted, received, and already applied towards classes?

I’ve had such troubles with the financial aid office that it’s insane. I’ve literally spent almost a 2 credit hour class since my initial rejection letter trying to resolve issues that the Delta College administration.  In fact, issues with the financial aid office caused me to write the following letter to the president of Delta college, Jean Goodnow:

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Dear Ms. Goodnow:

I have been attending Delta College on and off for many years, and have been impressed by both the affordability of the College as well as the quality of the instruction.  The staff that I have encountered have been, for the most part, extremely helpful.

I originally began going to Delta in pursuit of a Computer Information Systems degree, with which I was going to transfer to Saginaw Valley State University.  The job market lured me away from college, and I worked for some time in technology.  In the fall of 2007 I returned to school, this time wanting to pursue a degree in Accounting.  I began classes and did very well, earning a place on the Deans List in 2008.

I began registering for classes for four of my six remaining classes needed to transfer to Central Michigan University in the fall of 2009.  As part of this process, I filled out the FAFSA online on 05/08/2008.  Having had no issues before, and a definite need for aid, I did not foresee any issue with this.  It was at this point that I began to have difficulties with the college.

1.      I was issued a denial letter from the financial aid office because of too many credits being taken without a degree being earned.  This occurred on 6/16/2008, and the root cause of this was because I had switched programs from CIS to Business Administration, leaving me with classes taken that aren’t applicable to my degree.  I was busy during the summer, both with a class at delta (no aid for this class) as well as with fulltime work and childcare for my two elementary student children.  I downloaded, filled out, and submitted the “Standards of Academic Progress” form on 9/10/2008.  This process was humiliating since it’s the same form that people that fail out of college while on aid are required to fill out.

2.      On 9/12/2008 I went to CMU and spoke with an admissions advisor there to be certain that my courses were appropriate for transfer.  I registered to be a student there starting during the fall of 2009, pending the completion of the classes I’m taking now and the classes I will be taking in Winter 2009.

3.      I went to see an academic advisor at delta on 9/15/2008 to be sure that I was going to be able to complete my time with delta in a very short time, and he looked over the classes and saw that they were appropriate for transfer.  He saw no issue with what I was trying to do.  I did not get his name.

4.      I waited till the 9/15/2008 and emailed the financial aid office requesting an update.  They requested the 2008-2009 Independent Verification Worksheet, a signed copy of the Federal 1040 tax return including all W2′s, a copy of schedule C tax form, and a copy of the child support my wife receives as part of her divorce from her ex husband.  I returned this information very soon thereafter.

5.      I received a further denial for financial aid on 10/01/2008, this time requesting that I contact an academic advisor and receive their signature on a form.  I filled out the form and met with Jessica Miller in the student advising office on 10/03/2008.  She provided the signature that I needed, and also advised that I request a graduation for the associates degree that I already have earned but have not yet received.  I filled this out, and turned in the signed copy of the form to the financial aid office.

6.      I received in the mail a denial of the associates degree because instead of 1 LWA class, I had done 2 LW classes back when that was the requirement.  I went back to see Jessica Miller on 10/21/2008 and she assisted me by putting in a substitution request for the 2 LW classes to the LWA.  This was approved by the program coordinators, the dean, the registrar, and then was placed into records.  I later received my first associates degree, and will follow this with the associates for business
administration pending my completion of next semester.  Jessica was, by far, the most helpful person I’ve contacted thus far in this process.

7.      On 11/3/2008 I received notice after emailing the financial aid office that the Financial Aid Appeals Committee met on November 11th or November 13th to review the documents.  On 11/17/2008 I received a response to another request for a status update, stating that I would receive a paper mailing that week.

8.      On 11/22/2008 I emailed again not having received a mailing, and got a response back on 11/26/2008 that it was sitting on the desk of the review committee, and there has been a delay in processing.

9.      I received my financial aid award letter on 12/9/2008.  It included zero aid for the Fall of 2008 semester, and aid for the two classes in winter 2009.  When I responded to the award letter asking why this was the case, I received a response that the committee denied my appeal because they wanted me to apply for a degree.  Since I had done this, they chose to approve the Winter 2009 semester for the two courses needed to complete my degree.  This is confusing, since the classes for the Fall of 2008 contained requirements for my degree, yet they refuse to provide assistance.

This entire process has been exhausting to me.  It has been over three months since my initial attempts at appealing the decision made by the financial aid office and almost six months since my initial denial of aid.

I understand what it means when “The Delta Difference” is mentioned in commercials as well as in my personal life.  Delta has been a part of my life for a long time, and has long been something that I have recommended to others looking to get a start in college.

This is not the experience that I have had when dealing with the Financial Aid office.  While I understand the need to take care and be thoughtful about who needs and deserves aid, it seems as though bureaucracy has allowed students such as myself to be swallowed up in it.  I have even had difficulty getting the attention of someone in the Financial Aid office when I personally visit, as I tried to do on 12/11/2008.  I stood at the front desk for 20 minutes without being so much as acknowledged by the staff that was working.

At this point it is almost a foregone conclusion that I will not be receiving any sort of aid for that semester no matter what hoops I jump through, and no matter who I speak to or say.  I would appreciate any sort of action that your office could take, but after these six months I am rather discouraged.  It is my intent with this letter to make you aware of the issues that students such as myself face.

Please contact me back regarding these issues at your earliest convenience.  I would greatly enjoy having a dialog regarding these issues.

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Following the above letter, the financial aid office approved my requests.  What has happened since then has been the following:

1) I applied for graduation as you are supposed to do, by the deadline that you’re supposed to do it.

2) I received the same denial for the associates in science degree as I did in step 6 above.  Because of the renumbering from LW to LWA, I was unable to graduate.

3) I contacted Jessica Miller again and requested on January 30th a substitution request

4) Nobody did anything on the administrative end, which I’ve come to expect.  I went back to Jessica Miller again on 2/19 and re-requested the substition.

4-10) I went back again and again and inquired about six times to try to get this pushed through.

11) Eventually, it came down to the registrar.  I went to see Jolene in the registrars office and asked her to push the request through.  She did.

12) I received my Associates in Science in the mail.  I’m not sure why this happened.  From my knowledge, I’m currently in the classes required to obtain my associates in science and go to CMU.  The classes I have taken are on the MACRAO transfer sheet.  I need to finish this equivelency before I go to CMU.  I did not ask for the diploma to be mailed to me, I requested graduation.

Now I get your response below.  Is your job to go through recent graduates and attempt to deny them financial aid?

As you’ve seen above, I am more than willing to jump through any hoops delta would like me to jump through.  However, I need to know – if I choose a different program, what will happen?  Does it matter which program I choose?  Why do I need to do this when the whole crux of approval rested before on these classes I am taking now for my degree?

Most of the communications I’ve sent to the financial aid office have resulted in a lack of reading and responding my questions.  Please go through and read these and try to answer them for me.

Regards,

David Cooke

Big news!

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That was what I saw on Friday, March 13th.  It’s taken a while to tell everybody, but all of the parents now know what’s up.  Telling all of them has been a week-long ordeal.  Some reactions were not like I expected.  Some were exactly like I expected.

Where to start?

Jolene thought that she might be pregnant, so one night she bought two economical pregnancy tests from Walgreens.  She used the first one, and there was an ever-so-faint line indicating that she was pregnant.  We wondered if it, perhaps, it was just a mark that came up due to dampness and not a real pregnancy?

How would we figure out of it was truly indicating that she was pregnant?  We debated – should I pee on the second one to compare the results of the my test vs Jolene’s test?  I decided that no, let’s just try the second one tomorrow.  Again, a faint line showed up on the test indicating pregnancy.  I later learned that even a faint line means that the chemical that it tests for is present.  We didn’t know this then…

Jolene decided to have her blood test taken in Mount Pleasant, where she works.  They wouldn’t give her the results on the phone, so she called me from Sams Club and asked me if I wanted to go and get the results with her.  “No, that’s ok dear…” I had a lot of work to do that day, and there was nobody around to watch Maddie and Ben.

I reconsidered minutes later, she had been behaving a little differently than normal.  This became a staple in our house, being eaten for every meal possible:

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I called her back telling her I’d meet her at her work in an hour.

I left notes for the two beasties, giving them instructions to come in and play video games while they wait for me to get home.  I figured an electronic babysitter could handle the 30 minutes that they would be without supervision.  Madalyn is almost 12 already anyway.

I drove to Mount Pleasant, and went to meet my wife at the store.  We went to the hospital, and found our way to the lab records area.  We asked for the paperwork that would tell us if Jolene was pregnant or not, and they asked for an ID.  We left this item in the car.  Jolene had to sit and stare at the paperwork through the security window while she waited for me to fetch the ID.

After following several very old, very slow people through the hallways of the Mount Pleasant hospital, I retrieved the ID and gave it to her.  We looked at the results, above.

During the following week after we found out I wrote a little note.  I did not intend to show it to anyone, and as such the grammar isn’t exactly as I would have hoped.  It was more of a stream of thoughts placed on the paper.  However, after Jolene saw it she decided that it was something that she wanted to use to let her mom and sister know that we were pregnant. That said, here it is in it’s entirety, unedited:

3/17/2009

I’ve been waiting for you.

After I got out of high school I had a grand plan, a way that my life was going to go. I would go to college, I would get a job in the computer industry. I would have a child or two by my mid 20’s. I would have a reasonable house, and live in my parents image of success. None of this happened.

I don’t regret anything in my life. I did go to college after high school. I dropped out during a boom in the economy, in the computer industry. I had a good job, one with possible advancements. I married the girl I was with in high school. That job disappeared from underneath me. So did the wife.

It was then that your mother, brother and sister came along and saved me.

When I met your mother I was depressed. I was lost. I did not have any direction in my life, and I lived it day by day, a hermit in my own house. Your mother, brother, and sister pulled me out of my shell. They showed me love, care, and showed me that I would never ever have to be alone again.

I joined them in Bay City in your mothers apartment. She took care of me during an illness when I had nobody else to do so. It was then that I saw the moral character and the caring, loving person she is. I had been already introduced to your brother and sister, and was friendly with them. I grew to love them, as well. While there wasn’t a specific time that I can place that I did, it happened gradually over time. It was a large adjustment for everyone.

I married your mother on May 5th, 2006. Both of us had been married before. It was not our intention to have a large wedding like we both had previously had. We moved back into my house, which was quite large enough for 2 young adults. Having a baby was something that we talked about, occasionally, but we always waited for the right time.

This has been something I’ve done my entire adult life. Every time I would think about having a baby, I would think about things that would make it difficult if not impossible. There never seemed to be a right time. First there was college. Then there was my lack of a house. Then I had the house, but nobody to share in this journey.

When I met your mother, she already had 2 kids. 2 kids alone is a handful, never mind adding more to that. Now I’m back in college, and the thoughts that maybe we should wait till I am out and have a steady job outside the house occurred to us. In the end, your mother and I decided that if we were going to wait any longer, we might regret not making the decision while we still can.
I’ve been waiting for you.

We tried having you for many months. It was only after your mother got a thyroid pill adjustment that you were possible.

That waiting was over as of Friday, March 13th 2009. I drove to meet your mother in Mt Pleasant, where she works and took a pregnancy test at the hospital. We were so excited to go in and get the results from the lab that your mother forgot her ID in the car. I had to walk back to get it while she waited, in sight of the paperwork but unable to read it.

Once back with the ID, we got the good news – you were with us already! I was numb feeling, not sure how to react, but happy.

Now I’m waiting again, not for the right time, but instead to see you. Right now, you’re a small clump of cells. In eight months, you’ll be a full person of your own, out in the world. It seems like a long time from now, but I know it’ll go so very fast. I hope it does. I’m tired of waiting. I hope very strongly that everything goes smoothly. I’m afraid, but hopeful.

So far, we’ve told her parents, my parents, some friends, some co-workers and so forth.  As we move further along we will tell more people. It’s a good start.  I’ll be documenting things here, more for us than really for anybody else.  It is, after all, a new experience for me.

My only concern thus far is that it’s possible our baby may end up like this:

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It’s either that or they’ll grow up hating peanut butter, we figure.

First doctors appointment for the baby-making is Tuesday.  It’s a strange new world.